Many younger guys will find older women, or ‘cougars’, very sexy and alluring. If you are one of them, you are certainly not alone.
One of the things that men seeking out cougars Perth will wonder about is what to talk about when they go on a first date with their new found, older woman.
Here are a few things that you can talk about when going on a first date with your chosen cougar:
Talk to Her About Herself
One of the first things you should do when on a date with a cougar in Perth is to talk about her.
She will likely be very interested in telling you about herself, and this can be a great opportunity for you to get to know her, as well.
Talk to her about her job, her hobbies, and the type of music she likes. Make sure, when interacting with her, you don’t make her feel as if she is an old woman or anything like that.
For instance, if she says her favourite singer is Neil Diamond, respond with something like, ‘Sweet Caroline is a great song!’.
Do not say, under any circumstance, “Oh, I know Neil Diamond. My mum loves him too’.
Talk to Her About How Serious You Are About Dating Older Women
Many Perth cougars will feel as if men are only looking for sex from them, and even though that might be the case, you are never going to get that sex until you convince her that you are serious about dating an older woman.
Some of the things you might want to focus on when speaking to a cougar on a first date is that you feel as if older women are more mature about life than younger women, that older women are more worldly and know more about things you are interested in, and that older women don’t bring drama to relationships like younger women do.
You also might want to mention that older women are sexier than younger women in your opinion.
Talk About Things She Knows
You will also want to keep in mind that cougars in Perth will likely be 15, 20 or 25 years older than you. Because of this, she will have had a different life experience than you and you will need to keep that in mind.
It will really work in your favour if you take some time to look up life in the 1970s or 1960s, so you will have some type of knowledge about the era in which she great up.
Information about pop culture, for instance, can really be impressive to her, for instance. You will also want to keep in mind that she is likely quite sophisticated, so steering the conversation towards literature, music, art or even world news will let her know that you have some type of interest in the same things she does.
Talk About Sex
Finally, you want to cautiously and in good taste, bring up the topic of sex. An older woman will likely not want to jump right into the sex conversation, so you definitely don’t want to bring it up at the beginning of the date.
However, it should be brought up at some point, carefully and respectfully, especially if you see that she is getting quite flirty or bringing up sexual innuendos.
At this point, you should be able to gauge where your date is going, if there is going to be a second date, and if it might be possible to hook up with this cougar, tonight.
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